It added so much stress that it affected my quality of life. This used to take hours organizing, filing and copying them to my lawyer. However, I still had to keep track and file all of his messages in case the court wanted to see evidence of the abuse and try to sort out all of the “he said, she said” that typically ensued. Over the years, I have learned not to respond to his desperate attempts to harass and control me except for in a BIFF manner.īIFF stands for Brief, Informative, Friendly, and Firm another tool that I have learned from Bill Eddy’s teachings.
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My ex’s texts and emails are all filed where the court or any professional that I choose can see at any time.
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Our Judge ordered us to sign up for OFW at $99 each per year. I am tired of the never- ending barrage of texts and emails and phone calls from my ex. “High Conflict People aren’t just difficult people,Īs I mentioned, this summer I had to file another OOP against my ex-husband and, this time, I asked the judge to order that he and I only be allowed to communicate on Our Family Wizard. He is a true blue High Conflict Person who can’t manage his emotions, think rationally, or focus on the well-being of our son. I went through a High Conflict Divorce myself in 2008 and I am still harassed and targeted for blame and abuse by my ex-husband. I guess I thought that my divorce proceedings were over so why would I use OFW? It was not until 2017, when I had to file for (yet another) Order of Protection from my ex-husband, that I truly understood the benefits of Our Family Wizard (OFW). I remember thinking that it sounded like a useful tool for my clients and that was all. I first heard about Our Family Wizard in 2015 when I was studying for my Divorce Coaching Certification.
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